I am in a similar place, hullbreach. I am also waiting for my soundless, Overlord Stunt. We all know there are issues here, and I still believe both Ultra and DT try to run a solid, honorable business. So we try to cut them some slack, but I think I feel the same way you do about this thing.
Except for the $300 thing. That doesn't bother me. The expediting fees are apparently just that. I would have been VERY, VERY upset, if they were sold for the same price, and people received their Overlords ahead of us. Yes, I would have preferred those Overlords go to us first, but that's life.
So . . . we wait.