as one of the spunkiest women here (come to think of it, I can't think of a non-spunky women here but I digress) I will freely admit that we - women - can be nuts, act irrationally, expect you to read our minds - AND NO, WE'RE NOT GIVING YOU A HINT - and feel perfectly justified in being mad when you get it wrong.
of course, i'll also offer some words of advice to combat all this foolishness that we put you men through - we're worth it. lol :D ;)
frankly, either way you're screwed. She probably now thinks she's a cow...
I keep telling y'all: we're nuts.
Truer words little be spoken. lol
You all are nuts one way or another in my book, but your right women are usually worth it anyways. We keep our mouths shut when we shouldn't have to, we take fault when we need not, get blamed for everything even when nothing was done sometimes, and are endlessly insulting when we aren't. Just face up to those facts are always true, your always wrong no matter what, and you'll make a good pet for any woman lol. You can agrue back, but choose carefully.
I agree ignore the one and see if she comes back around. If not she's a looney toon for sure lol.
For Frodo I would say your answer to the dilemma is in how you want the outcome to be. You can admit to be weak and take the hit so she feels better. Or you can stay silent and let her think she's a cow. Either way Barriss is right your on the losing end of the argument. Time to hit the weights laddie.