I need to find something temporary for my costume because I plan on using many of the components for my summer Ren Faire costumes. (amazing, take off the tabards and obi, switch the sleeveless robe for a cloak, and I'm a Maiden, which helps in the price and versatility dept!)
The problem that I have is that I plan to wear a vest under the tabards to break up the color scheme of white on white linen - well, the vest is leather, so the linen slips on the leather. I'm thinking some discrete safety pins through only the bottom layer of the tabards and the inner layer of the obi and at the shoulder of the dress should work somewhat. *crosses fingers* That, and worse comes to worse, I'll just close my robe! Heck, swoopy robe, big hood, glowy saber, i'm sure I'll get my point across! :D
What else I have found, is that I have to grow comfortable in the outfit. It's not just a matter of putting on some clothes, it's a matter of 'owning the look'. Oh well, maybe my expectations are too high!