I agree, mu friend. Life events changes you and Han did it for the girl he loved, too.
43 yrs, a wife and a son: I can identify myself with such an action.
To my German friend I can say don't be touched. Third Reich was a entire world black spot, not a Deutsch problem. We're all involved. As Italian we has something similar and in the world, now, somethimg similar is happening. Always troops and a leader there are, no matter the colour of his skin and hair.
We can stand united for Peace and Justice, for the weakest rights.
You're clean as my 2,5 yrs old big boy, you are young, you can make the world a better place.
And may the Force be with You all.